Monday, 16 April 2007

this could have been me.....


for years i was scared of being alone or lonely. I stayed in a very emotionally abusive relationship for too long, for this very reason. A very good friend of mine took it upon himself to make sure i learnt how to be comfortable with myself by helping me realise that there would always be someone there for me, even when i wasn't with anyone. It was the best thing that anyone has done for me. My life is so much fuller now as i am unafraid to attempt anything anymore, even if it means it has to be done solo. I am still often lonely and sometimes i do feel alone, but it's ok now..... i do not always need people around me to validate me now. I like me. I'm ok.
I read the postsecret.com page every week and this postcard appeared this week.....it made me smile, because i could have sent it about me.

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